Lordy Lordy Where do I start??? What a crazy couple of days!!!
As I've mentioned in the blog before, potty training hasn't really started. Sure Charlotte has shown some signs of readiness AND has also shown some big resistance to the whole idea. Then came Sunday and Charlotte proudly showed Mike her diaper, which she took off all on her own. Thank goodness it was only wet...
The the best advice I've ever recieved was while I was pregnant with James, a mom of 6 kids (3 of whom I used to coach) told me not to worry about anything UNTIL it gets quiet. On Monday as Mike and I were sucking back gallons of coffee (kids are still waking at 5:30) I realized that Charlotte not in the room and was being very quite. The Sherlock Holmes in me went to investigate. And sure enough Charlotte was under her bed attempting to remove her diaper... which was NOT just wet!!! WHOA!!! Sound the alarm, we need to address this and NOW!!! So I promptly cancelled our plans and Mike simply smiled on his way to work as he left me to tackle this on my own. Oh shall I re-phrase, not on my own, I have a 6 month old who is learning to crawl, and is very curious in things like... lets say THE POTTY!!!
On our previous attempts at potty training, my heart was not in it. I can be honest and I don't mind changing diapers. But now we were on a mission. Ideally I wanted to get Charlotte to go straight into the big potty. I'm not a fan of the whole idea of cleaning the little potty BUT the big potty hadn't worked yet, so we needed a new method. I had heard to put them on the potty infront of the TV, or to use something like Smarties as insentive a.k.a bribes. I pumped Charlotte full of liquid, and sat her infront of the TV on the dreaded little potty. At this point I should mention, that I would have preferred to move the TV into the bathroom, instead of the bathroom into the TV room. Anyway, we started off with a BANG, and only had one accident all day. Charlotte thought all the attention and Smarties were fabulous, and was trying so hard to put every last thing she could muster into the potty. Mike came home that day to the "Poo Poo Parade" heading down he hallway. He said he was thankful to be heading to Montreal the next day.
We don't need to go into all the fine details of the following days, but Charlotte is doing really well. We continue to have accidents, but they are rare. I must also mention that potty training has tested my patience like nothing else ever has. Not only must you stay optimistic, but you need to be enthusiastic at the result, no matter how small, or if it was the 100th false alarm. Plus at this point if Robbie needs food, or nap, at the same time Charlotte needs to use the potty, well the potty gets priority, so it has been hard on him as well. A mistake I already know I've made, is the Smarties. Not only is potty training stressful for everyone, but now I have a 2 yearold strung out on sugar who needs to sit still. Yeah right! Where we have gone right, is that Mike is away. It sounds mean, and of course this puts more on my plate, but this way we know everything she is hearing is consistent, not to mention Mike does a pathetic Poo Poo Parade. LOL.
Watching Little Mermaid

Early morning pee... nope potty is still not allowed in the bathroom.
The potty goes where ever we do. By the way, it is not me who thinks Charlotte should be naked to use the potty. We compromised on the hat, and sun screen.

Now onto the other HUGE news in the Hudson house. Robbie is crawling. Yes that is right, poor Robbie only gets 2nd page coverage on one of the biggest milestones of his first year. He is shaky and wobbly but he did it this afternoon. I promise to get some video. I do think that Charlotte's potty training helped him learn to crawl. Never has he had so much freedom on the floor. He can rock and roll without the threat of being pummelled by Charlotte (oh that reminds me I've not posted about the attempted drowning we had last week... I'll have to write that one out later). But it wasn't all roses, having Charlotte sitting on the potty usually meant I was with her, and not there to catch Robbie as he did face plant after face plant, and some of them must have really hurt. But he perservered and will soon be going 100 miles and hour. Watch out world, here comes Robbie!
Not only did Robbie learn to crawl today, but he also pushed himself up from laying into a sit. Like I said it really has been quite the week.
Just hanging with Colonel while Charlotte takes a nap.
