Mae is the youngest and as in most houses with more than one child there is a division of time parents are able to spend with each child. I think back to the number of hours I spent sitting on the couch reading an snuggling Charlotte and then I think of Mae asking me to read her a book. She'll ask when I'm making supper and then about 1.5 hours later I sit down with her to read. Just for the record I feel horrible. I want to snuggle and read with her, and I do my best, and I get to it everyday. It might not be 3 or 4 books but I get 1 or 2 in every day. Now I have a choice I can feel guilty about all the things I can't do, or I can look at the 1/2 full glass in a different light and realize how rich her life is and how she has older siblings that Charlotte (and even Robbie to some degree) never got to experience. She has a big sister who sings her lullabies at bed time, she has a big brother who is more than willing to run around the house with her. She has developed a fantasic imagination and can occupy herself better than many kids 3 times her age, not to mention she is practically self sufficent and realised at a very early age she'd have to figure out problems on her own. Such as what to do if big sis in on the toilet and you have to go... well you go to the basement bathroom. Now I chose to have a medium sized family, I wanted siblings and chaos, and boy I did my wish come true! I couldn't be happier. Here is a perfect example of Mae with her imagination and sulf suffiency. I made her a 'fort' she played with her stuffies for over an hour. She read books, laid down the law (see photo, she is wagging her finger at one of her bears), she had snack, put her bears to bed... she was in her own little world.
 


Mae and her big sister.

She loves 'Sissy'
 
Then comes Robbie, always chasing her around.

 
And you can never take away from the special relationship Mae has with her Grandma. All the kids love Grandma, but Mae spends the most time with her and has a special bond.
 
Mae and Robbie got to go to the Parade of Lights. Charlotte was 'grounded' for the first time, and Mike and I had to follow through with the punishment. We told her if she acted out one more time she'd stay home. Well she called out bluff and lost. It was hard for us to do, but she needed to know we were serious.
 

Here is a cute story. The school was having a Christmas Fair and fundraiser, and I usually contribute a cake for the cake walk and some stuff for the bake sale. I decided I wanted to make an igloo cake. It really wasn't that hard, and it looked awesome! The kids woke up in the morning and were so excited for the cake. Infact Mae though it was her birthday cake. I had to break it to her that it wasn't for her, but for the school. She was not happy about it. The older two kids were determined they were going to win the cake back. Okay I'm not trying to brag, but this cake was great and I said it was going to go in the first round of the cake walk. Well the kids have never been so excited to get to the school. 10 mintues before the cake walk began the kids were there ready and waiting. The first round of the cake walk goes. There are 25 kids playing and guess who won - - Robbie! He ran up to get his cake so fast and started grabbie at it before a grown up could help him. It was funny. We brought the cake home and Mae runs up to Robbie and says "Thank you for bringing my birthday cake home"
Halloween has come and gone. As usual I have a Halloween party for the neighbour kids. As much as the kids (Charlotte) begged, I didn't want to extend the party outside of our neighbourhood into the kids friends as that would get too busy. I asked Robbie and Charlotte if they wanted normal food or 'gross' food. They picked 'gross' and I was more than happy to oblige. Here are the photos from Halloween, yes, they are the same as on facebook.

Eyeball Juice
 Skeleton Mac and Cheese

Worms or Intestines, which ever you prefer?

Pumpkins should not eat Sweet Potato

 love these teeth, and they are quite yummy

Not my best cupcakes, but I was running out of time

More eyeballs
 
Of course I need to dress up.
 Robbie - snake guy
 
 



The crew - minus camera shy Drake.


Here are the kid updates, life is pretty calm and uneventful. I'm trying to think of some crazy story to tell you, but there is just nothing worth mentioning. Sure we are busy, but it is managable, and overall the kids are starting to (dare I say it) cooperate!!!

Mae well she is our crazy one. Yes it is that simple. There are days I look at this blonde beauty who is reaking havoc in this house like no other child ever has and I am in disbelief she is 2. How is that possible? She should be 4 the way she talks, walks and acts. She has confidence, she is articulate, and does her darnest to keep up with the big kids.

Robbie. Wow he is nearly 5. This feels like such a long time coming, all his buddies are 5 so he is very excited for this milestone. He also keeps asking when his teeth are going to fall out as that will be a sign that he is 'maturing'. I think a better sign would be if he ate with a fork, but we'll see what happens first. Probably the lost teeth at this rate. Our Bob has found a love for soccer. I've said it before with Charlotte the joy is brings to watch the kids not only enjoy sports, but to have fun doing something I was so passionate about for years is even more special. Who knows what he'll play as the years pass but I love standing at the window watching Robbie playing in the yard. He says he wants to play on a team in January. We'll see, he doesn't have the best track record at participating in organized activities. Swimming-Nope, Gymnastics-Nope, Beavers-Nope. Now he does like skating, and I've never had an issue putting him on the ice, so fingers crossed he'll have the same success in soccer. We had our first parent teacher interviews this week as well. Robbie is doing great. The staff is very aware that he is a young primary, and is guaging him with that in mind, but they are very happy with his work, and his participation in school. So that is good news.

Charlotte. She is growing so fast. She is caring, and sensitive or can be down right mean, all depends on her mood. Girls are like that, is all teachers and parents say to me. So what can I do but ride the wave, enjoy the highs, tolerate the lows and carry on. This week she went to the dentist, usually a very proud moment, but she had *GASP* a cavity. Oh boy, now all the teasing she put her brother through, has come to smack her in the face. The other thing that she doesn't realize his Robbie's cavitiy was simply from soft teeth, nothing to do with his brushing. But Charlotte's was due to poor brushing. The dentist says this is a common age for cavities as kids start to take on more of their own heigine. So the night before her filling she was crying and says to me "I wish I was a Turtle, Turtles have no teeth". Kids do say the darndest things, where did that even come from? Anyway she was a brave trooper, she did everything the dentist asked, and I couldn't be more proud. I mean it, I was super proud, I am a wimp at the dentist. I didn't want to pass on my fears so I sat well out of her view and squirmed and cringed the whole time. She was braver than I've ever been in the dentist chair.

 
Some random photos, not on facebook.
 
Robbie playing soccer with Danny.

Mae painting.

Robbie and Drake digging through Robbie's Halloween Candy.

Charlotte at gymnastics


Mae wearing a mask.